Thank you all for stopping by to wish me a happy birthday on my last post, I really appreciate. Although I had to work on my birthday, my co-workers made sure I had a great day and quite frankly it was one of my best bdays so far.
My heart goes out to families of the victims of the mine explosion in W. Virginia. May God give them the fortitude and grace to bear the loss of loved ones, Amen.
I used to look down on people who say they don't want to have children cos I didn't think it was normal. Over the years, my opinion on that has changed. I would rather you don't have children than have them and not take care of them. it's a huge responsibility to be a parent & you owe it to whomever you believe is of highest authority to give your child the best life possible.
Contrary to popular belief, I'm of the opinion that "love is NOT blind." In fact, I believe love sees much further than people are willing to admit. A lot of times people either see and choose to accept what they see, see & choose to ignore what they see, or see and are just to naive to understand the meaning of what they see.
We as the younger generation need to understand that although times have changed, certain rules about life remain fundamental.
Seems everyone's excuse for cheating these days is sex addiction, hmmn!
I need a vacation, like seriously. I say this at least once a day and my co-workers are getting tired of hearing me say it hehehe....and I've been craving suya a lot lately, naija is seriously calling yo!
Hope you're all having a great week, be good.
people will always have excuses.... oh and i agree.. love isn't blind.. more like its a cold, calculating schemer... :)
ReplyDeleteHave a great week and happy belated birthday
ReplyDeleteLove is not blind at all. I agree with you too it's better not to have children than to neglect them.
ReplyDeleteThere are some times when "love is blind," and others where "love is not blind." I'm starting to see it in two different perspectives, lol.
ReplyDeleteHappy belated birthday,dear....trust you had fun :-)))
ReplyDeletehappy belated birthday to u..wish u a gr8 yr ahead..
ReplyDeletei totally agree..dont have them kids if you cant take care of them seriously, parenthood is so not a joke!
and love, yeah, far too many women turn a blind eye to a lot of things when they are ' in love' and then when things start to spiral out of control, they complain..but it's far better to keep ur eyes open
I tell people that all the time. THere is nothing wrong with not wanting to have children. Not everyone is meant to be parents.
ReplyDeleteI wont mind being ur hand luggage to naija..
ReplyDeleteI agree with you on the not having kids thing. My mom is always outraged that someone doesn't have kids but when you think of all the children who are mistreated out there, I think it's wonderful that someone who recognizes they don't want kids for whatever reason does not have kids.
ReplyDeletePlease, if you head to Naija, take me with you!
I'm glad you had a good birthday.
Eyaa, happy Birthday in arrears o. I understand what u mean with the baby situation sha, but I was at a friends house the other day and got to carry her 10 month old baby. As I walked home that day, I noticed this ache in my heart, I WANT MINE!!!! Babies r the cutest things ever!!! lol
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday!sorry I missed the party!
ReplyDeleteCheating in my believe is underrated.What qualifies as cheating?really?
While we ponder on that please vote for 2cute and the poem she wrote for Jos titled FOR ME YOU AND THEY
Go to www.naijastories.com
Show her some love and support
Thanks
i totally agree with you
ReplyDeletehaving kids is not a must
there a responsiblity attached to it
that should be taken seriously
Babies are so cute but it's a different story when they're yours and you're responsible for them 24 hours. Happy Belated Birthday!
ReplyDeleteAhem,, did you say nigeria and suya.. I go follow you.
ReplyDeleteTata how u dey,yeah i agree that you should have number children that you will be able yo take care of
ReplyDelete@ Don Bagucci: lol! I disagree with you on loev being a calculating schemer, ppl just need to shine their eyes...
ReplyDelete@Harry-Rami Itie: Thank you.
@Myne Whitman: Yeup! thanks for stopping by Myne.
@Jaycee: u think so? hmmn don't know about that...I appreciate ur stopping by.
@My world: Thanks lady, I did have fun.
@Nice Anon: for real o! being a parent is major yo!
@KabiOsi Edumare; haha! I see u miss naija too.
@goodnaijagirl: True, it's definitely commendable to recognize that. You sef wan go naija hehehe...
@Sugarking: lol, ehen! a whole sugar king aching for his own child? don't worry in due season u too will have urs. Thanks for the birthday greeting.
@sosexy: haba! u really need me to tell u what cheating is?
ReplyDelete@BBB: yesso no be joke to born pikin at all
@Suru: as in, any decision u make revolves around the child...
@Andrea: Yes I did lol!
@muyiwa: I'm good Muyiwa. Thanks for stopping by and hope u good too.