It's amazing how little things help me realize how much I've grown and still need to grow. One of my co-workers from a different dept. went off on me today over the phone (she called from home) for something she was majorly responsible for.
Now the Tatababe of sometime last year would totally have gone off right back at her especially since she was going off about something she was primarily responsible for but today I just listened and as I've learnt over the past few months sometimes listening involves empathy.
To be honest, I think it was just pent-up frustration from much more than the job and she needed to vent, I just happened to be the one in my dept. to pick up the phone. This is not to say it was okay for her to do what she did but like I said in my very first post I'm learning to be less judgmental because "it's a grace to know". It humbles me and gives me the opportunity to be of service. I did the best I could to calm her down.
Thank you for sharing this. Sometimes we forget that eve though the other person is in the wrong, our remaining calm prevents things from getting out of hand.
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my dear, i know what you mean o! i was in a similar position this week. but i just took a deep breathe and calmed down. the bibi of before would have gone wacko on her. but we grow everyday i guess.
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ReplyDelete@Bibi: for real? Indeed we grow everyday...I appreciate your stopping by.
Looks like you handled it well...we live and learn!
ReplyDeleteLooks like I have some growing up to do as I would have gone off on her too...I need to work on my temper sha.
ReplyDeleteyeah cool,we learn as we grow
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ReplyDelete@Original Mgbeke: lol! na 1 step at a time my sister, I appreciate your stopping by.
@muyiwa: Indeed we do, thanks for stopping by.
funny thing i almost wrote a post about growth today...
ReplyDeletei agree i av changed a lot also
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ReplyDeleteSo taking those deep breaths work...lol...
I think Life is all about how we react to things that happen to us and not those things in themself.
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ReplyDelete@tankojjetty: yesso those deep breaths work...most times at least. the way we react to things in life is key for sure. Thanks for stopping by.
Yes dear...growth comes with time!!! not age! :) May we learn the lessons we are supposed to learn...quickly!!!
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